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1000 good moves ruined by 1 bad
Any success can not compensate for failure in the home
Do not fear poverty; Fear low ambitions
Do not shed a tear until you see the coffin
Drain the pond to get all the fish
Eye for an eye
Eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth
Fear not long roads; Fear only short ambition
Fix roof before the rain; Dig the well before you are thirsty
If you cannot bite, do not show your teeth
Just as Liquor Turns a Face Red, Gold Turns a Heart Black
Learn From Your Predecessors
Mark the boat to find the lost sword / Ignoring the changing circumstances of the world
Mind Your Own Business
Not Only Can Water Float A Boat, It Can Sink It Also
One who walks by the river may end up with wet feet
Put out a burning wood cart with a cup of water
Respect out of fear is never genuine; Reverence out of respect is never false
The farts of others stink, but one’s own smells sweet
The incompetent boat pilot blames the river for his shortcomings
The one who retreats 50 paces mocks the one to retreats 100
The Weak are Meat, The Strong Eat.
Tooth for a tooth
Walking 100 Miles: Stopping at 90 miles, is the same as stopping half-way.
You May Learn from Victory, You Will Learn from Failure